tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post8003008517589490218..comments2023-11-03T08:47:31.579-07:00Comments on this girl's life: the past is historylisalisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03506556513672749033noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post-82401562803457385622009-06-14T11:53:39.230-07:002009-06-14T11:53:39.230-07:00Happy Birthday to your hubby...like NOW IS NOW sug...Happy Birthday to your hubby...like NOW IS NOW suggested try thought dropping like acknowlwdge you have the thought accept then drop it from your mind..If that doest work try radical acceptance. Ie, you cant change the past but you can take charge of your future...accept teh past for what it is dont judge it it cant change and it is what has molded you into one of the most careing, loving and inspiring people I have ever met..<br /><br />much love to you<br /><br />ZZenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03857291235181694200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post-85906757032501363082009-06-13T20:53:45.677-07:002009-06-13T20:53:45.677-07:00Did you have fun cooking for your husband's b-...Did you have fun cooking for your husband's b-day BBQ? <br /><br />I'm sorry you've been feeling so badly about yourself, but you are not a bad person. At all. You're a wonderful, caring person. Don't engage in those negative thoughts about yourself. If they come, just push them away. They're not productive in any way.<br /><br />(HUGS) <br /><br />And, p.s.: don't apologize for a "negative" post. I don't think you're a negative person. Plus, it's your blog! You can write whatever you want!now.is.nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05102652111745735039noreply@blogger.com