tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post8076033755113722461..comments2023-11-03T08:47:31.579-07:00Comments on this girl's life: the truth is...lisalisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03506556513672749033noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post-86030305938157358992009-08-15T21:32:30.017-07:002009-08-15T21:32:30.017-07:00"just take it one meal, one bite, at a time. ..."just take it one meal, one bite, at a time. I know its hard. But you have done this before. you have it in you to do it again."<br /><br />that was your advice to me. I think I should share it with you b/c it's great advice :)now.is.nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05102652111745735039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post-46692501917199652322009-08-15T07:40:02.768-07:002009-08-15T07:40:02.768-07:00SO you were hiding huh?? Like did you think we wou...SO you were hiding huh?? Like did you think we would notice...we love you to much not to umm care...:)<br /><br />So you were dateing ED for a few days ...and what did you learn...that you guys broke up for a reason right..he is a bastard prick and once you are no longer are in obivilion as to how well you can function with out him... he doesnt serve his purpose any more...SO you learned your lesson right??<br /><br />I wont scold you..I will just tell you the honest truth...once you have lived with ED you cant go back...you just cant, you will let down everyone you know..especially your kids and hubby...is that what you want to do or become a person who lets down the ones she loves...I think not...I knwo you better then that...so I will just say in the most loving way I know how (((LISA))) get your ASS BACK ON TRACK...like pronto...make a choice..be willing and like nike says just do it!!!<br /><br />Ill be here for you to cry and throw fits and be pissed off...i will be here while you miss your old identity...and i will be here with you while you share your joys in finding your new one...we will do it together...it will be fun..I swears...hard but fun...and I am sure well worh the journey!!! you know im right...:) and that s why you love me...so what was for breakfast my friend??<br /><br />AND GOOD JOB ON FINDING A T!!! I hope you guys mesh and if not just open the phone book and keep searching...i think the biggest part of recovery is NOT GIVING UP!!!!<br /><br />love you lots,<br /><br />TaraZenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03857291235181694200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post-59104594310851554142009-08-15T07:24:12.731-07:002009-08-15T07:24:12.731-07:00I am very sorry that you have been having a rough ...I am very sorry that you have been having a rough period, but sometimes slips can serve as reminders of what we really have to lose (no pun intended). Just a short trip back to that lifestyle and you feel terrible, act differently...the world is truly a different place when viewed from within the disorder. The fantastic thing is that you have gained enough perspective to *recognize* when that is happening and do something about it, instead of being complacent and allowing that terrible, shitty, depleted feeling to become your new baseline. You should be incredibly proud of being able to see this path isn't worth it and reclaim your authority over your own life!!!<br /><br />I know that recovery isn't always the easiest path in the short run, but in the long run it is truly a gift to yourself, your family, and your future. Hang in there and keep on fighting, you deserve the best.Cammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18181004571609998125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post-28552009959119421442009-08-14T23:10:53.946-07:002009-08-14T23:10:53.946-07:00Yeah we have parallel lives right now. That's ...Yeah we have parallel lives right now. That's all I really have to say.<br /><br />I'm trying to put my energy towards staying motivated - not towards eating. Because when I put my energy towards eating, I know deep down I won't eat if I'm not motivated to. So, I'm trying to remember throughout today why it matters that I treat myself well and eat enough. It sounds like you're doing the same thing. DO NOT KEEP YOUR FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WILL "LOSE" (less healthy but alluring body). KEEP YOUR FOCUS ON WHAT YOU GAIN (energy, connections, happiness, your children, your husband, etc.)now.is.nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05102652111745735039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post-84917630480249271052009-08-14T16:42:29.907-07:002009-08-14T16:42:29.907-07:00Ok, first glad you found a T, or at least that you...Ok, first glad you found a T, or at least that your trying one on, second Good job for pulling out of the spiral. <br /><br />Now for the bad, you avoid writting why? Cause you thought we wouldn't understand? Ummm hello I know your reading some of the blogs. Maybe it was more you didn't want us asking you to get help, to think about your kids, to say we care about you and please think about what your doing.<br /><br />Sorry, I'm commited to being honest in my blog and how I comment. If I'm having problems I expect you guy's to help me through it. My own little support community. I know, now, that I can't do it alone. I tried and it just doesn't work. ED love's it when your alone. DON'T BE ALONE! Remeber that quote. And think would you starve your kids so they could be skinny? I doubt it.<br /><br />And I'm really glad your eating. I know the body image thing stinks, and don't have any advice there. If you find something that works let me know.Eating With Othershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07885274679677042833noreply@blogger.com