tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post8353658744997210322..comments2023-11-03T08:47:31.579-07:00Comments on this girl's life: updatelisalisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03506556513672749033noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post-52808016330553091432011-03-17T11:55:25.161-07:002011-03-17T11:55:25.161-07:00Sister thoughts & advice (and this is just fro...Sister thoughts & advice (and this is just from my own personal experience) -- I found that after the year that we didn't speak, we really didn't talk about the past or what had happened to get where we were. It's kind of like we started fresh. We were one year older, one year wiser, and we had both changed. So we started on a new page and we really rarely look back. I don't think it would be helpful to rehash all that stuff from the past. It just brings up old bitter and guilty feelings.<br /><br />It took the death of a mutual friend to bring us back together. That's when we realized that it was ridiculous that we were sisters and not speaking. And ever since, we've been good. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post-36727821733212238412011-03-16T20:29:04.223-07:002011-03-16T20:29:04.223-07:00Your cake decorating skills are amazing!! I agree...Your cake decorating skills are amazing!! I agree with the others here, that cakes is really pretty (and the bouquet too).<br /><br />Hopefully your sister understands that it would have been tough for you to be present in her life when you were really struggling with the ED. I would think she'd know that. Besides, anyone with a sister thoughtful enough to plan such a nice shower would know they're lucky to have a great sister :)krishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02970254025864615280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post-87331707441608261052011-03-15T15:23:48.631-07:002011-03-15T15:23:48.631-07:00You seriously have skills girl!!!!! I am impressed...You seriously have skills girl!!!!! I am impressed by the bouquet and the cake. I can barely make a sandwich.<br /><br />It's great that you're mending the relationship with your sister. Is she younger or older & by how many years?<br /><br />Can you believe my sister and I went through a period where we cut each other out completely? Yeah, for about a year about 10 years ago. It sucked.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post-28234935187805448872011-03-15T11:03:47.209-07:002011-03-15T11:03:47.209-07:00It sounds like it was wonderful. The cake and flow...It sounds like it was wonderful. The cake and flower bouquet were beautiful. You really went all out to make it special, and I'm sure that your sister appreciated it. I know that you feel guilty, but all you can do is live in the moment. That is how we can move forward.Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05748840293468845389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post-1014884711768112132011-03-14T21:45:05.824-07:002011-03-14T21:45:05.824-07:00The bouquet and cake look AMAZING!!! You did a won...The bouquet and cake look AMAZING!!! You did a wonderful job and I know your sister appreciated it. <br /><br />I can totally relate to you as far as the "bad sister" feelings. Kirsi and I's relationship was basically non existent when I had ED. I was her maid of honor but was at UNI so she bought my dress and all I did was show up. (I didn't give her a bachelorette party) and helped her friend Sarah decorate her car. <br /><br />We were at liberty park the other day (eating girl scout cookies) talking and she said that she was relieved when I was admitted to UNI because she was worried. I never want to feel like I can't help/pull my weight/not be there when she needs me.<br /><br />So I was trying to say I know what you mean. :) I know your sister noticed the care and time you put into making her baby shower special. You're a good sister. :)Keelyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00468076434968691018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780058410537977838.post-66178219400047744052011-03-14T18:51:15.241-07:002011-03-14T18:51:15.241-07:00Wow! That bouquet and cake look so pretty!Wow! That bouquet and cake look so pretty!kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18268548015072137304noreply@blogger.com