I love being a mom, especially this time of year and straight on through to the Christmas season! I love creating fun memories for my kids! It's kind of like living the best parts of my childhood all over again.
When I am really depressed I try not to let it spoil the holidays. I don't want my kids to have bad memories of feel like they missed out because Mommy was sick. I guess my trick is to pace myself. Pick one thing, like making caramel apples, and think of it as a goal. Like "I'm making caramel apples with the girls tonight, so what can I do today in order to feel good enough to make that happen?". It's like a balancing process.
Yesterday was I didn't do such a good job. We had the trunk or treat in the evening, and I knew it, but still I overscheduled the day and ran myself ragged. Part of it is the methylphenidate, and part of it is this feeling that if I just stay busy, I can outrun the depression. Anyway, by the time we had to leave for the event, I was way stressed out. But I did what I could do to turn it around. I let Chris take the girls around, and I stayed at the trunk to pass out candy. Seeing all the excited little kids in their costumes and wishing them all a happy haloween reminded me that this was a happy event. It was just the therapy I needed! So we all had fun and,last night, that was all that mattered.
6 comments:
Great pics!! YUM on the caramel apples. I want some!!
I love the pictures. You are amazing Lisa. (hug)
Glad you re-centered yourself! Good JOB!
And nice pumpkins, makes me think about carving one myself!
your daughters seem like great, happy kids. clearly, you're doing a terrific job.
parenting looks extraordinarily difficult to me. i give you SO much credit.
just wondering - how do you deal with all the halloween candy? it might be hard for me. i never really like being around volumes of food
Oh my gosh, all 3 of you are adorable. And I think your genes must be really strong because all three of you have the same face. These pictures are so lovely! I'm so happy that this is a happy time of year for you. Also, the jack-o-lantern with the moon? I LOVE IT!! Awww, smiling :)
thanks Alex! The one with the moon was mine. I accidently cut through part of it so it is held together with wood skewers, but you cant really tell.
Hate to Weight, I do NOT do well with all the haloween candy! Already I have binged on it, and its not even officially Haloween yet!
Post a Comment